A watercolor of a front porch at dusk with three glowing pumpkins, a basket of treats and a small toy lamb on the steps
Seasonal · once a year

Halloween, for the
little ones

Warm, early, and not very scary. A costume they can walk in, a basket with no candy in it, a book for the week before, and pajamas for the week after. This is the short version of Halloween, written down by a grandmother who has done a good many of them.

Rebecca Shepherd
Editor · grandmother
Two articles · two lists

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Start where you are

The costume

From the head down: nothing over the face, a size up for layers, their own shoes, and a way to be seen.

How to choose one →

A baby's first

Supper, a warm hat, one picture on the step and three houses. About forty minutes, start to finish.

The evening, by the clock →

The boo basket

Thirteen small things that are not candy, by age — and what goes in the second bowl at the door.

See the list →

The October books

Thirteen I read every year, sorted from not scary at all to a little bit scary on purpose.

See the list →

The pumpkin patch

What to put them in so the pictures come out, and the blanket to bring, because hay is scratchy.

The patch outfit →

At a boutique

The fleece lamb suit, the knit hat, the good pajamas. Independent children's shops, city by city.

Find one near you →
The edit

Not everything orange — the short list. Eleven things that earn their place in the last week of October, grouped by the part of the holiday they belong to.

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A small lamb costume on a peg by the door with booties and a treat bag

The costume, and the walk

Clothes first, costume second. These are the pieces that get a small person to the last house and back.

  • A hooded one-piece costume

    Ears on the hood, hood on the costume, zipper down the front. Warm enough to be the coat as well.

    Browse hooded costumes →
  • Thermal underlayers

    Thin and warm, and invisible under the costume. Worn all winter afterward.

    Browse base layers →
  • A canvas treat tote

    Soft handles and child-sized. Fills quickly, which is the point.

    Browse treat totes →
  • Glow bracelets and a flashlight

    One on each wrist so you can count them from the sidewalk, and a light of their own to carry.

    Browse glow bracelets →
A pumpkin hat and striped pajamas laid over a rocking chair in a nursery at dusk

The baby, and the first one

A first Halloween only needs to be gentle. Three things cover the whole evening.

  • A bunting-style baby costume

    A zip-up sack with a hood. On in a minute, warm in a stroller, off before the car seat.

    Browse baby buntings →
  • Halloween pajamas

    The costume that actually gets worn — for two weeks on either side of the day.

    Browse pajamas →
  • A clean-touch handprint kit

    One small hand on a card, turned into a pumpkin with a pen. The keepsake that fits in the box.

    Browse handprint kits →
A woven basket of bubbles, crayons, stickers and a board book beside a teal pumpkin

The basket, and the door

No candy in the basket; October supplies that. And something at the door for every child who knocks.

  • A reusable sticker pad

    Stickers that peel off and go back on, so the basket lasts longer than the afternoon.

    Browse sticker pads →
  • Bubbles and a good wand

    Still the best small present there is, at any age under eight.

    Browse bubbles →
  • Room on the Broom

    If the basket holds one book, this is the one that suits the widest spread of ages.

    Browse the book →
  • A teal pumpkin for the step

    The sign that there are non-food treats at your door, for children with allergies.

    Browse teal pumpkins →
Shop small

Find the good costume at an independent boutique

The fleece suits, knit hats and proper pajamas come from small shops that choose every piece by hand. Find one near you in our hand-checked directory.

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Good to know

Four things people ask every October

When should I buy a Halloween costume for a toddler?

The first half of October. The common sizes go first, and you want time to try it on over real clothes. Buy a size up so a warm layer fits underneath.

What goes in a boo basket for a baby?

A board book, Halloween pajamas, a small soft toy, and something new for the bath. Nothing edible and nothing smaller than the baby's fist.

What does a teal pumpkin mean?

A teal pumpkin on the porch tells families that the house has treats that are not food, so children with food allergies can trick-or-treat there too. Keep a second bowl of stickers, glow bracelets or bubbles beside the candy.

What time should little ones go trick-or-treating?

Early. For children under five, the hour before full dark is best: the porch lights are on, the streets are quieter, and everyone is home in time for a normal bedtime.